Luke 14
v.5
Then he asked them, “If one of you has a son or an ox that falls into a well on the Sabbath day, will you not immediately pull him out?”
So illustrative of the Father’s heart. God is good. He does not take delight in our suffering for he longs to enjoin us to Himself in the age to come.
v.26
“If anyone comes to me and does not hate his father and mother, his wife and children, his brothers and sisters—yes, even his own life—he cannot be my disciple.”
“Hate” (v.26; GK 3631) is not an absolute but a relative term. To neglect social customs pertaining to family loyalties would probably have been interpreted as hate. Jesus is not contravening the commandment to honor one’s father and mother. It is important to understand the ancient Near Eastern expression without blunting its force.
“Hate” could function as a hyperbolic, Semitic way of saying “love less” (Mt 10:37), but this point hardly diminishes the offensiveness of this saying in a society where honor of parents was considered virtually the highest obligation and one’s family was usually one’s greatest joy. Teachers regularly demanded great respect and affection, but in Jewish tradition only God openly demanded such wholesale devotion as Jesus claims here (Deut 6:4-5).
v.29-30
For if he lays the foundation and is not able to finish it, everyone who sees it will ridicule him, 30saying, ‘This fellow began to build and was not able to finish.‘
v.33
In the same way, any of you who does not give up everything he has cannot be my disciple.